Safe Online Dating

Never, under any circumstances, send money to people you meet on dating services. Learn the most common fraud and extortion tactics so you can recognize them early.

When you sign up and start chatting, do not share everything about yourself right away: your phone number, home address or financial details. Be cautious if someone pushes hard for private information — and if they ask about your finances, block them.

Even if you have met someone amazing, do not rush to move the conversation outside the service. Scammers collect emails and phone numbers for fraud, theft and spam. Keep the conversation on the platform until you feel confident.

Before moving into a more personal conversation, take time to understand who you are talking to. Notice how they write and what they talk about. If something feels wrong, end the conversation or proceed with extra caution.

When you are ready to meet in person, tell someone you trust where you are going, who you are meeting and when you expect to return. Choose a public place. Most dates go well, but it is always better to be prepared.

Strong feelings can make it harder to notice warning signs. Stay attentive, think through your decisions, and ask trusted friends or family for a second opinion when needed.